Improve support for desktop restoration in daemon mode

Improve support for desktop restoration in daemon mode

* lisp/server.el (server-after-make-frame-hook): New hook.
(server-execute): Call it after creating a new frame or before
switching to a buffer shown in a client frame.  (Bug#30421)

* doc/emacs/misc.texi (Saving Emacs Sessions): Adjust advice for
restoring desktop in daemon mode to the new hook.
* doc/lispref/frames.texi (Creating Frames, Standard Hooks):
Document server-after-make-frame-hook.

* etc/NEWS: Mention server-after-make-frame-hook.